Enneagram and Marriage with Christa Hardin

How We Really Fight – And Heal: Shock Points, Harmonics & the Instincts

April 27, 2026

What if the differences between you and your spouse weren’t something to fix, but something to value?

In this episode, we explore how our instincts shape the unique gifts we each bring into relationships. When we learn to understand and appreciate those differences, conflict shifts, connection deepens, and relationships become more peaceful, safe, and grounded.

This conversation is about embracing the ways we’re wired differently and discovering how those differences can strengthen love instead of dividing it.